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Dating Without the Fake Reality of Tinder: 3 Important Reasons Tinder Doesn’t Work

Dating Without the Fake Reality of Tinder

Tinder has been a blessing for those interested in hookups, but it’s become a massive problem for those desiring a lasting relationship. Tinder is a superficial app that forces you to quickly judge entirely on appearances, but this can lead to problems in dating and your own mindset. This guide will help you to break Tinder’s superficial spell so you can focus on what’s best for you!

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Dating Advice for Defusing Emotionally Charged Dating situations with these 6 tips

Dating Advice: Defuse Emotionally Charged Dating situations with these 6 tips

We have all been there, in that awkward situation of a dating disaster and that very moment when your emotions take it too far with the wrong words starting to come out of your mouth! And ingesting a few glasses of wine in the mix, emotions are heightened and world war 3 can erupts in to emotional mayhen! With so many feelings rushing around at the same time, the lines can get blurred of what could have been a perfectly nice and respectable date! It is all about learning to throw water on to the fire instead of fuel. By learning these 6 techniques you will be able to defuse the emotion and take back control of the situation.

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Essential Male Psychology to Help You Find Happiness

Not all of us will be fortunate enough to be celebrating this Valentine’s Day with the love our life. To help you find happieness for next Valentine’s Day our very own Board Certified Couple Therapy Professional Psychologist, Dr. Joel Block, explains an essential aspect of male psychology.

Will I find happiness?

You’ve been hurt, dumped and duped and you’ve bounced back. You’re still in the game. Then you meet him. He’s a keeper, at least that’s your dream.

Ah, yes, close your eyes and let the fantasy play out on the movie screen in your head. Soft Sunday mornings with fresh squeezed orange juice. Romantic walks among colorful foliage in the fall, blossoms in the spring. Intimate dinners and nights lying in each other’s arms.

There will be no need to speak; you’ll know each other’s thoughts and be comforted by them. He’ll be your strength, your joy and your safety net. You’ll be his lover, his best friend, and his anchor in life. You’ll even get each other’s jokes.
Sigh. Sounds great, doesn’t it?

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Does your perfume smell like you? The Scent of Human Attraction.

For years scientists have tried to uncover the mystery of human attraction. While there is still mystery, one important part of human attraction has been discovered and it resides in our genes. Two people with different immunity genes find each other more irresistible than two people with the same immunity genes. This even happens in animals like mice and fish. They do this by using their highly sensitive nose to figure out if a potential mate has similar of different immunity genes than themselves.

But if our sense of smell is not as sensitive as a fish or mouse is smell really part of human attraction?

Turns out it is!

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What’s in your love manual?

Recently, Instant Chemistry released our love manual which accompanies a client’s genetic and psychological results.  It’s a really in-depth booklet, meant to turn your DNA result into a meaningful and useful tool to strengthen your relationship and help it grow.  But what does it include?  Here we show you what to expect when you receive your very own love manual.

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Deciding to get married: a man’s perspective

You’ve been on the dating circuit longer than you’re ready to admit and you’ve found lots of interested men, but sex is their interest, not settling down. You’re understandably discouraged. You certainly want relationship compatibility, but first he has to be available to go the distance, you’re done with the sprinter circuit. You’d love some encouraging news.

Wait no more! In the good news department are the National Marriage Project studies to guide you. Deciding to get married can be a big decision and  there are a myriad of reasons why a man might be commitment-phobic, but the studies also confirm that most men do eventually get married.

Here is some research that may make your day and more importantly, put some science in your search:

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Attraction: Using Your Sense of Smell

We’ve all heard the saying: “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.” But is this actually the case?

Evolutionary psychologist Dr. David Buss would argue yes and no – depending on which sex you’re talking about. While it is obvious that a person’s appearance factors into attraction, in the book “Why Women Have Sex”, Dr. Buss writes that women place a higher importance on smell than men do.

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